I will be careful what I say here and not be specific, as I know the policy here about certain topics and discussing details of those, but the reason denials occur often the first two stages is not, I repeat, is not "always" just because of lack of evidence or disability merit. It can be because of politics. You cannot seperate government agencies from politics as it involves politics. With politics comes biases. With biases comes denials. Not in all cases, but some cases.
I am not singling the government out, as everyone has biases and emotion, and the rights to make some judgments based on their history of values and experiences. But,when people are suffering and dying, and VERY IMPORTANt decisions must be made, the government workers must look at the evidence with objectivity, base decisions on facts, law, and not assumptions, minimizations, exaggerations, and see us as humans with needs and not some number.
Am I saying base decisions on empathy or pity, no, but using common sense, too. Common sense is if a medical report, facts in the case, or military other stated or suggested the PTSD was now severe or could occur at an time, or under even minimal stress, you likely should have won at stage one if such was in the record. Just because you had that long military work history, that should not imply able to work now, as your condition could have developed there and got worse and worse there, to the point that you no longer could work anywhere.
I know many with PTSD, and ALL can be triggered severely even under minimal stress, that can appear at any time. Are there any jobs that have "less than" minimal stress? No. And heck, I could argue no stress in the environment needs to be present at all, but then that person could turn some fact, feeling or issue in their mind into some stress, which could trigger that person to think about that other stressful trigger, then incapacitating him or her, for a period of time. That is common sense. One does not need a doctor to speak that obvious.
But, if your medical record supports you now being triggered even by smaller stressors, and causes you much severe dysfunction at unpredictable times, and the details of all your conditions as pertaining to daily living difficulties and not functioning in various environments were clearly noted, which seems very reasonable to assert, based on your not handling the last two jobs, long term treatment, suicide watches, being pushed out of the military because of condition, and the need for service dogs, etc., where is that common sense, too?
Out the door, that's where. For mental health cases, for instance, often wrong assumptions by others are made, thinking one is not as harmed as they say, one is faking a condition, or because of not seeing the condition at that moment, or as it is more hidden. Also, there is more prejudice against those with mental health issues. This is to not imply it cannot occur against those with handicaps and physical disabilities, as it does, and as some of those conditions or injuries are hidden, but there likely is less understanding of mental health issues.
I believe your lawyer. I think the ALJ should take the evidence more seriously. Unfortunately, your case will not be the last like this. I am noticing in this forum more and more having had government positions, professions where they protect or serve, with these claimants and disabled even having to seemingly fight harder for their own rights. How fair and ironic is that? Regardless, I feel your chances seem much better at the ALJ. Will expect that to be the case.